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The test of true love is how long two people stay together; no matter what life throws at them. Sometimes, a mature relationship can struggle. It is at this point that a decision has to be made. More often than not, the decision to break up is the most common one made. If you believe your relationship is rocky and may be heading toward a breakup, but you're not ready to throw in the towel yet, you need to know how to stop a breakup.

There are many reasons why people break up. Most breakups happen because the relationship has grown stale. One person, or sometimes both people, in a relationship realize that they just don't seem to have anything in common with the other person anymore. Maybe the spark of attraction is gone. Maybe they feel that there is someone else out there better for them. If your partner already broke it off with you, then you know the reason, or reasons, why they didn't want to continue in the relationship with you. However, it's much easier to stop a breakup before it happens.

If you believe your relationship is heading toward a breakup or your significant other has broken it off with you, and you're not quite ready to give up yet. If you think your relationship is worth fighting for. Whether or not it truly is, can only be determined by you. Then read the following advice on how to stop a breakup; to see if it can help you.

Think things through. There's nothing worse than a knee-jerk reaction. When someone breaks up with you, it is very painful. All you think about is the positive within the other person. However, sometimes, a breakup can be a blessing in disguise. It helps if you can put down on a piece of paper the good things and the bad things about the other person.

Divide the paper in half. Write down all the positive attributes and qualities the other person possesses and then write down all the negative attributes and qualities the person possesses. Make sure that you do this when you're rational and clear thinking. Be honest with yourself. Don't sugar coat it. If the negative qualities and attributes outweigh the positive, then perhaps, there's no reason to want to stop the breakup.

Talk to your partner. Another piece of advice on how to stop a breakup is to talk to your partner. Let your significant other know what you are thinking. The relationship you are in with your partner is two-way. If you can have an honest discussion with your partner, you may be able to avoid a breakup.

They may be able to open up to you about something that is bothering them. It is very important that you don't get into any type of confrontation during the talk. If you do, you will only shut down their willingness to communicate with you. You need to listen and not become critical or angry. This may be hard to do, but it's very important.

Value love. It is not everyday in your life that you find a person who will love you as you are. If you think your partner loves you more than anything else, remember to value it. A little lack of excitement in the relationship is not proof that you have lost the connection. You might just have to rekindle the love embedded in the depths of your hearts. While your partner is with you, value the love you have for each other. In other words, don't take the other person for granted. In a mature relationship, taking someone for granted is very easy to do.

Get help from a professional. This is by far the best piece of advice on how to stop a breakup. If you truly cherish your relationship, and you seriously think that you're heading toward a breakup; then getting help from a professional is probably the best thing you can do. Therapists and relationship counselors have saved countless relationships. There's nothing to be embarrassed about if you have to resort to this. It's amazing how having a specially trained third party; who is completely neutral, listening to you and partner discuss your problems can truly impact your relationship for the better.



 

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