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There are major, significant differences between men and women. Women and men are looking for different things in a relationship because they have different personalities. It is still a mystery for men what a woman really wants in a relationship, what she needs to be happy.

Women have an idealistic view of the relationship and that is why they want the man to change. Changes occur every day but rarely do they affect anyone. Therefore, men refuse to do this, they usually have the concept that if their woman loves them, they have to accept them as they are. If not, they had better change their girlfriends.

People in relationships often have strong expectations that their partner will be exactly what they want. You will see that if you meet a girl and you will have a long relationship with her, after a while she will try to change you. When you met her, she was perfect in every sense of the word. However, after a while, she will try to make you to be like the person from her fantasy.

People which try to change other people in a relationship initially try to make the person out to be something they were not and try to mold them in the perfect mate. Nevertheless, a perfect mate does not exist. Trying to change a person is a sign of strong possession, to have someone so strongly that you can actually change his or her behavior.

Change is not always a bad thing to try to induce, sometimes your partner can just lack certain social graces; but change should always be a two way street with a couple, otherwise you just controlling the other person. However, women always seem to want to change the man they are in love with. Even if they know that men do not change, yet women try anyway. That happens because most women enter into a relationship with unrealistic ideas.

There are girls that have strange ideas about relationships, and they try to change the person they meet with a person they loved before, but this always fail. In addition, they do not understand why men like going out with their friends to pubs, even if it is a form of relaxation, especially in weekends, when they consider that weekend is for the family to spend time together.

Many times happens that your girlfriend sees you staring at a beautiful woman whom is passing near you on the street and she gets angry and asks you to stop this and change yourself. However, this happens because women are very jealous and do not understand that men like to admire the opposite sex and not necessarily with intention to sleep with them.

Women should learn to love their partner with all his faults, this will save them of a lot of heartache for the long-term of her relationship. This is the reason there are so many divorces. All women try to change their man, that is why rarely hear that a woman is complimenting her man to her friends. They compete to see who has the worst man.

Maybe you have a relationship for a long time and she asks you to change a little bit. You changed yourself quite a lot, but she still finds out things that she does not like about you, and wants to be changed. It is never enough no? What is next? Usually men cannot change easily, but some of them change themselves only if they are motivated to do so.

However, if your love and trust in your relationship were strong enough, she would not ask you to change yourself. It takes maturity to the woman to realize that she will never change the person who she want to be, so she should accept him or forget him.

To have success with your relationship you must accept and respect the differences that are between you two. Both have issues, but if there is true love, you will try to complement each other.

Because of the big differences between men and women, the most frequent complain men have about woman is that they always try to change them, and the one that women have about men is that men never listen. It is true that women value love, communication, beauty, and relationships while men are more interested in objects and things rather than people and feelings.


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